Wild Decade

It has been a wild ride of a decade for me, that is for sure.  In my better moments, I see life as an adventure, and so it has been.  And the past decade has been the most adventurous of them all for me.

I think it has been the hardest decade of my life, but also the best in relation to eternity.  I have learned the most these past 10 years, and a lot of that is because I have been able to put into context so much of what I have experienced and learned throughout my whole life previously.

I feel like my whole life has been a roller coaster going round and round, and up and down, but then this last decade, the car has flown off into the stratosphere at an incredibly high rate of speed, and it has been terrifying, and amazing.  No more rails to hold me down or give me a false sense of traditional and worldly security.  It’s pretty much just me and God now.  Thankfully Vaughn is in the car with me. 🙂

Although my search for truth and trying to understand the things of God all my life led to it all being able to happen, I can identify a certain catalyst moment for most of what I have learned and experienced this last decade.  It was accidentally (seemingly, but I don’t believe much in pure coincidence) seeing a book on Amazon, and choosing to purchase and read it.

That book was The Second Comforter, Conversing with the Lord Through the Veil.  I looked it up today in my purchase history on Amazon, and I bought it on April 26, 2009.  Over the next couple of months I bought more copies to give to friends whom I thought would love it like I did. 😬 😊

So, for my children, grandchildren, friends, and whomever else reads this, here are some experiences and things I have learned over the past decade or so.  All of them were valuable, although some were incredibly hard and sad, but I am grateful for all the experience and hope I will learn what I am supposed to from it all.

(I want to be clear that whenever I say the Lord told me or showed me something, I am talking about him making things known to me through my spirit, or telling me things in my mind and heart, or through a dream, or what I call a vision.  I am not talking about him standing in front of me and talking to me face to face. 

I have friends who have had that happen, but I have not had that happen.  I do not want to misrepresent my experiences, or say things in such a way as to imply something other than what has happened, as I have heard many do.  But I do not know another way to say it other than to say the Lord has told or shown me, so you can just know I am not talking about conversing with him face to face when I say that.

And I especially want to say that whatever I believe the Lord has told or shown me has been my experience, and does not mean that others should believe or think the same thing. 

We are all supposed to use persuasion, as the Lord does, and as he has said in the scriptures.  Not try to control people with our “spiritual” experiences.  And everyone has their own journey anyway.)

I have read some amazing books the past decade.  Although The Second Comforter was amazing and the catalyst for the past 10+ years of incredible stuff, there are other books I am more likely to recommend that I have read during that time.  Some of them are: Come Let Us Adore Him, Preserving the Restoration, Knowing, Application of Impossible Things, and Ten ParablesThere are lots of others, but I would love it if my loved ones read those and told me their thoughts, and we could discuss them.

Early on in the decade, I had to confront being afraid at Church.  I would never have imagined that would be possible.  It was a shocker, but good for me.  It made me look at my own treatment and judgement of others, and at my “pride” and confidence in what I was so sure I “knew” for almost 4 decades.

One of the miracles for me early on was the Lord changing my brain in an instant so that I suddenly understood in a way I never had before that I must not follow men, that it was very wrong.  That was an amazing moment that I can hardly describe.

I lost the respect of many family and friends.  Very good for me.  Pride is incredibly dangerous.

I heard of people maligning my husband for his beliefs (which are the same as mine) behind his back.  A good way for me to learn to let go of anger and hurt.  I have learned a lot about forgiveness and understanding.  I believe everything comes from fear or love at its root.  We all need to forgive all those things done stemming from fear, which includes anything controlling done in the supposed name of love.  Controlling people comes from fear.

Also early on I had an overwhelming baptism of fire experience.  I have talked about that some elsewhere.  I learned in a deeper and more prolonged way about the love of God for all of us.

I also had some other spiritual things happen that taught me a lot about the atonement that I won’t go into, but in 2012 or so I had an experience where the Lord was telling me we were to move to Utah.  I knew that with a surety in my soul greater than I knew before was possible to experience.  It was absolutely not what I wanted to do, but I knew it was what was to happen.  And I have had continual evidence of the importance of that move ever since.

At one point the Lord told me that a certain person whose teachings the Lord had told me were true would be excommunicated.  I knew that since I believed the same stuff that person did, that I would also be in danger of excommunication.  At that time, that was an unthinkable horror to me.  I prayed that by the time it happened, the Lord would give me courage and understanding so I could handle whatever came of it.  He did.

I have been pitied, ignored, called an apostate, had friends be rude, de-friend and block me on Facebook, and other things that were very sad for me.  This has all happened because I believe differently, or because I have talked about things that are true but seem “negative” to others.  But I have seen other friends suffer much worse than I have, including being excommunicated, and losing spouses, children, and other family members because of their beliefs.  So very sad, but all good for me to see to reflect on my own treatment and judgement of others again, and to see how fear destroys things.

I have studied so many things freely over this past decade.  It is so wonderful to not feel restricted in what you can or should read and study and learn.  There is truth everywhere.  So much is missed when men tell you what to read and what not to read.  The truth should not be feared.  If the truth can shake something, then it should be shaken.  I have learned to trust the Lord, and not men, to help me discern.  I have also learned that fear is not from the Lord, and that a “bad feeling” initially about something doesn’t mean it is not true.  Things that cause us cognitive dissonance, or threaten our pride or what we have based our foundation on, can “feel” bad at first.  Joseph Smith said that the Holy Ghost has no other effect than pure intelligence.  We can have a feeling in reaction to the knowledge the Holy Ghost gives us, but feelings alone are not reliable ways to “know” something.  There are lots of examples in scripture of people having a “bad feeling” about something true being told to them.

The Lord told me to be rebaptized on Sept. 20, 2014.  It was my 57th birthday, and I was born in 1957.  There was much symbolism in it for me, although I didn’t even realize all of it until afterwards.  For those wondering, yes, I believe my baptism on March 24, 1973 when I was 15 years old and joining The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints also was vital and something the Lord told me to do.  I would never have gotten to the second without the first.  And both were vital for me to show the Lord through my faith and action that I accepted what he was doing in my life, and in the world now.

I have had some shocking revelations of how much me being a member of the LDS Church, and the things that caused me to do, hurt my extended family who weren’t LDS, and even my immediate family.  They were telling and showing me the harm it was causing them through the years, but since I thought I was doing right and must follow men whom I thought surely knew better, I harmed myself and others needlessly, and against what the Lord would have wanted.  It took the Lord gently showing and teaching me so much for me to realize it.  I am so grateful for mercy and the love of my family in spite of my foolishness.

I have mourned the loss of friends and the closeness of many relationships, but I have rejoiced in the making of new friends and relationships different from any I have ever had before.

By 2010, maybe sooner, I had met some people online who had also been reading and believing some of the same stuff I had.  I can’t remember exactly when, but I think by 2013 a bunch of us had gotten together in an online chat group.  We became really good friends, and other people have joined over the years.  This group has become an amazing thing.  Much of what I have learned this past decade, I have learned through discussion and experience there.  Most of us consider this group our “fellowship” much like the early Christian “churches” after Jesus’ death and resurrection.  A church was always supposed to be a group of believers, not an institution.

Over the years, since we can chat whenever we want, we have learned so much about each others’ lives, personalities, and beliefs.  We have most all gotten together in person at various times whenever we could.  And we do Zoom calls to chat face to face and to do the Lord’s Supper together.  Many of us pay our tithing to those in need in the group.  The amount of tithing help and care given, and the many people helped over the years would likely stun anyone who heard about it.  I consider the people in this group part of my family and love them dearly.

From this fellowship interaction, I have learned more than I can tell.  Everyone in there has dealt with some similar trauma, and it has been worked out on there to a large extent.  One major thing I think we have all learned is how to continue to love and care for, and still be friends with, those who profoundly disagree with us.  We have huge differences in how we view many things.  And although we are certainly very far from perfect at it, I have never come close to anything like it in any relationships I have ever had before.  Because of being able to freely express our thoughts, without dire fear of rejection or shunning, we are all able to learn so much.  This has been a blessing greater than I can express.

Over this decade I have learned that so much of what the LDS Church believes about Joseph Smith, and so much of what most of those who have left the LDS Church believe about Joseph Smith, is not what I believe about him.  I am amongst a very small group who believes he was a prophet, did begin the restoration of the gospel, did bring forth true scripture, did not practice polygamy in the way the LDS Church and most former members think he did, and that he would hardly recognize what the LDS Church teaches now.  I believe the LDS Church and its scores of offshoots are clearly descended mostly from Brigham Young and his beliefs and traditions rather than mostly from Joseph Smith, as most members think they are.

I have learned what tithing was always meant to be, and how that changes the very concept of the nature of God.  And I have learned that tithing is for the poor, and I have experienced and watched the absolute miracles that abound when it is handled that way.  There would truly be no poor at all if we all understood and lived the law of tithing the way the Lord wants.

In Oct. of 2014 Vaughn and I resigned from the LDS Church.  We would have been excommunicated if we had stayed, although not by our Bishop at the time, who was very kind to us.  But he pointed out that the next Bishop likely would, and someone at some point surely would, unless we changed what we believed.  After we resigned, the Lord told me that he had led us to that course in answer to something I had been praying for a long time, and that was that no one would ever be condemned because of anything they did to me.  No one would be in trouble for kicking me out when I was following the Lord, since I had resigned.

I have learned over this past decade that what I called the plan of salvation is much more vast, much more complex, much more beautiful, and much more merciful than I ever imagined before.  That this life is one step in an almost infinite number of steps to become like our Heavenly Parents, but at the same time it requires so much more to progress here than I had realized.

I have learned from looking back that the Lord has tried to teach me much of that before, but I could not see it until I was where I am now.  Now I can look back and see that the Lord has been leading me carefully along, but that I also could have stopped that movement forward at any time by making different decisions, or rejecting what he was offering me, and it chills me to the bone to see how easy it would have been to do that.  I am also aware that I have likely done that with some things anyway, and don’t realize it.  I can only pray he gives me other chances in this life, so I don’t have to do it all again.

I have learned that this quote, which can be found here, is truth: “When it comes to the gospel of Jesus Christ, which according to Joseph Smith comprehended all truth. It is our own fear that limits our capacity to gain from what’s being offered. It’s a measure of our ingratitude, when declining the invitation that Joseph extended to search deeper and deeper into the mysteries of God, we elect to withdraw fearfully and conclude that we’re just not interested in what might have been had. It’s actually a trick of the devil to get people to close their minds and close their hearts, because they fear what they may be learning will do damage to them.”

I have learned that our free agency really is paramount, and that although I didn’t usually realize it, I was often infringing on my children’s and others’ agency, and that I was in a system that was doing it all the time while thinking it was not.  I have learned that God never does that.  And that any thing or system that does is not of God.

In Jan. 2017 I heard of the Testimony of St. John.  I read the whole thing right away, before I knew how it had originated.  I was blown away.  It has amazing stuff that fit in with other things I was learning from the Lord myself.

On Sept. 3, 2017 a covenant was again offered by the Lord to anyone who wanted to accept it.  I had previously read it, studied it, and knew it to be the Lord’s voice, which I recognized as soon as I read it.  Vaughn and I were in Boise, ID, in the audience on that day when it was offered for the first time, and we accepted it.  Anyone who wants to can accept it still.

For a long time we had discussed in our online group about our Heavenly Parents and the condescension of God as discussed in the Book of Mormon, and lots of other cool stuff.  A talk was given called Our Divine Parents on March 25, 2018 that we listened to as it was given, and it confirmed some things that we had come to the conclusion were true about Heavenly Mother, and also taught a lot of other stuff that clarified things I had thought about, and much that was new.  I love it, and have read the written version several times.

I have talked about the scriptures project before, so I won’t repeat what I have said in other posts, but I am so excited about that!

I have learned that a person can be given a message to disseminate widely from the Lord, but such a person will not ask you to follow them, but will always point you to the Lord.  They will not take your agency.  They will not have authority over you in any way.  They will use persuasion and not force.  And they can still be wrong about things.  And so, I have learned that the authority must be found in the message and not in the person.

During this past decade Vaughn has had two heart attacks, and I have had health problems.  In the moments things like that happen, it is hard to see them as blessings, but the Lord has shown me that they are.  I have had to choose hard things in spite of abject fear.  I have been shown some of the purposes of the Lord.  I have seen some of the immensity of the plans of the Lord and been comforted by seeing that.  I have been told by the Lord that I have been healed in the past and that therefore I should realize any lack of healing now is not from a lack of faith to be healed.  That gives me comfort.

There is much to learn from trials and possible imminent death.  There is much to learn from grief and even fear.  I hope to learn it all without having to experience much more of it. 😊

So, these are a few of the important things in my life over the past decade.  I wanted to write this to have a record of it, since I am not good about writing a journal at all.

A few more thoughts: One of the hardest things for me over the past decade has been that almost none of my old friends have asked me anything about why I changed what I believe, what I actually believe and why, what I am learning, why I am not a member of the LDS Church anymore, or any of the things that matter so much to me.  If I were on the other side of this, I suppose I would be the same, just avoid the awkward stuff or whatever upset me.  Just ignore them.  But it is hard, because everyone wants to be understood, and not misunderstood.

When we resigned, the members in our ward at the time started talking about how we had been offended and that was why we left.  To be fair, they didn’t know us very well at all. Only one person ever asked us about the real reasons why, but the supposed reason that we were offended, was totally made up.  But it is part of the party line for why members think people leave: they were offended, they wanted to sin, they are too lazy to come, they weren’t reading their scriptures and praying, etc.  Knowing hundreds of people who have left, and also knowing what the LDS Church’s own research shows, I can tell you none of those things, or other simple or shallow reasons, are hardly ever the truth.

We had written a letter for the Bishop to share with other leaders in which we explicitly said we were not offended in any way.  But that is still what people said.  Our children who were still members at the time and attending there, were very upset by the mean things they heard said about us.  One of them was told by a leader that since her parents had left, and she couldn’t be with them forever now, that they would be her family now.  She was so horrified that she left the building right after that meeting and didn’t go back.

Over a decade ago, I would have probably thought and acted much the same as those members did, because I would not have been on the other side to know better or to have seen the consequences of my thoughts and actions.  But if you are a member of the LDS Church, and have read this far, please know that these common misunderstandings, and shunning behaviors do not help, and are not true.  And they backfire.  The best thing is when people are just honestly kind and show you love without an assignment to, and there was one person who did do some of that. ❤️

There is so much common ground in this world.  All people of goodwill, whatever their religious or political or other beliefs, generally have the belief of loving one another and treating others as you would want to be treated.  It would seem to me we could always fall back on that common ground, and try to understand each other, and not fear each other.

If you have read this long treatise, and know me, and are afraid you might have ever hurt me, don’t worry about that!  I just love you and thank you for everything, and hope you will forgive me for anything I have ever done that has caused pain or harm.  We are all in this life together.  We can all love and help each other. ❤️

Thanks for reading this!  I’ll try to make my next post MUCH less about me.

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What if It’s a Blessing?

When the Washington Post article, and then other articles, came out yesterday about the Mormon Church hoarding over 100 Billion dollars of tithing derived money and possibly using, or not using, the funds illegally, I saw many members upset.

(Here is a good summary video of the allegations.)

Again, it seemed to many, the Mormon Church was being persecuted by outsiders.  Or perhaps Satan was again attacking the Church and making it look bad.  Perhaps people are thinking:  These kinds of negative stories are upsetting.  Why can’t people just focus on the good things?  And there are so many good things, done by the Church and the members, to focus on.

Today things seem to have calmed down with members seeming to feel reassured that the Church and the leaders are doing what they should.  I have heard amongst other things that: They are saving for a rainy day.  They are practicing what they preach by being prepared for anything by having that enormous amount of money sitting there.  That we don’t need to worry where our tithing goes because we have the Lord’s servants directing all of that.  And that the beautiful buildings and wonderful programs are all run by it, and the rest is there for whatever need arises (that might require 100 billion plus).

But what if the news stories coming out aren’t persecution, and aren’t Satan attacking the Church again?

What if it is actually a blessing from the Lord?

What if the Lord has been trying for years to get us to wake up?  What if he wants his children to awake and arise and realize some things?  But he doesn’t want to take away our agency to do it, because he won’t do that.  That is what Satan does.  Maybe God is just helping some hidden things come to light, so that we will hopefully realize some things.

What if God wants us to remember the scriptures and what he has taught us in them?  What if the Book of Mormon really is for us to learn from and to apply to ourselves (the people who actually read it), and not to use to judge the rest of the world.  What if we are the ones who have “polluted the holy church of God?”

Mormon 8:37 For behold, ye do love money, and your substance, and your fine apparel, and the adorning of your churches, more than ye love the poor and the needy, the sick and the afflicted. 

38 O ye pollutions, ye hypocrites, ye teachers, who sell yourselves for that which will canker, why have ye polluted the holy church of God?

What if King Benjamin really was speaking the Lord’s words when he said this?:

Mosiah 4:16 And also, ye yourselves will succor those that stand in need of your succor; ye will administer of your substance unto him that standeth in need; and ye will not suffer that the beggar putteth up his petition to you in vain, and turn him out to perish.

17 Perhaps thou shalt say: The man has brought upon himself his misery; therefore I will stay my hand, and will not give unto him of my food, nor impart unto him of my substance that he may not suffer, for his punishments are just—

18 But I say unto you, O man, whosoever doeth this the same hath great cause to repent; and except he repenteth of that which he hath done he perisheth forever, and hath no interest in the kingdom of God. . . .

21 And now, if God, who has created you, on whom you are dependent for your lives and for all that ye have and are, doth grant unto you whatsoever ye ask that is right, in faith, believing that ye shall receive, O then, how ye ought to impart of the substance that ye have one to another.

22 And if ye judge the man who putteth up his petition to you for your substance that he perish not, and condemn him, how much more just will be your condemnation for withholding your substance, which doth not belong to you but to God, to whom also your life belongeth; and yet ye put up no petition, nor repent of the thing which thou hast done.

23 I say unto you, wo be unto that man, for his substance shall perish with him; and now, I say these things unto those who are rich as pertaining to the things of this world. . . .

26 And now, for the sake of these things which I have spoken unto you—that is, for the sake of retaining a remission of your sins from day to day, that ye may walk guiltless before God—I would that ye should impart of your substance to the poor, every man according to that which he hath, such as feeding the hungry, clothing the naked, visiting the sick and administering to their relief, both spiritually and temporally, according to their wants.

What if the Lord wants us to remember that the business of the Church is supposed to be open and transparent and that things in the Church are to be done by common consent?  What if he wants all the members to know exactly what the Church does with all its tithes and offerings, and profits from business ventures funded by those tithes and offerings?

What if the Lord wants things to be out in the open? What if God does not like secret works of darkness, and is having this and many, many other things come to light over the past several years so that we would start to wake up to these problems?

What if the Lord wants us to remember that having “no poor among them” is the state of Zion, and that 100 Billion + is way more than enough to make that true for all Mormons, and arguably enough to go a long way towards eradicating poverty in the whole world?

Maybe the Lord is trying to remind us that we are not to follow the arm of flesh, as he has told us over and over.  What if the Lord really does want us to think about what Jesus would do, and not just say “All is well.”

2 Nephi 28:21 And others will he pacify, and lull them away into carnal security, that they will say: All is well in Zion; yea, Zion prospereth, all is well—and thus the devil cheateth their souls, and leadeth them away carefully down to hell.

Maybe this news, about one of the companies owned by the Church having 100 Billion+ sitting there doing nothing but making more money and the possible illegalities surrounding that, and all the other things that have been coming out over the past few years, such as the protection of sexual predators and defaming of victims, historical cover-ups, gaslighting, paid clergy, other financial secrets, etc., will be enough to shake us to our core hard enough to save us from destruction.

What if these “revelations” are to save us, not to make us entrench more fully into our belief in our own specialness, and our surety that we are the wheat amongst tares, and that we will never fail, and that our leaders cannot lead us astray.  Maybe all these revelations are to wake us up, shake us up, just as the voice of the angel did to Alma the Younger.  That was not pleasant for him.  But he listened, and cried out to God in his anguish, and was saved.  Let’s not be like the Pharisees who were harshly admonished by Christ (who called them vipers, etc., and who cleansed the temple with a whip), but saw no fault in themselves or the other religious leaders of the time, only in he who admonished them.

Maybe we should listen when our sins are shouted from the rooftops, instead of digging in and insisting on our continued righteousness even in the face of obvious moral failings.

Where will we draw the line?  What will have to happen before we admit there is a problem?  How much more will we explain away or ignore?  How much will it take to cause us to awaken?

What if God does actually want us to think for ourselves about what is right, and not follow anyone but him.

I hope we don’t continue to make excuses until Christ appears and says he never knew us.

Matthew 6:19 Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:

20 But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal:

21 For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.

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I wrote about the new scriptures project in my last post, way back in April.

Buffalo-Family-1 Scriptures

There is a window from now until October 15th (2019) to be able to order them in leather editions.  There are various leather type options, and various color options.  These are extremely high quality versions, designed to last for generations, and the price is very low for each three volume set (and it includes shipping in the USA), since no profit is intended to be made.  Any shortfall in the cost of production is going to be covered by some generous donors.

They don’t know when, or even if, there will be another printing, so anyone who wants one of these editions should place their order right away.

Goat-Family-1 Scriptures

Rather than go into all of the info about these scriptures on this blog, I will just refer you to the web sites about them.

First of all, if you want to know what is contained in these scriptures, and why in the world new scriptures would be needed or wanted at all, this site can give you info on that: http://scriptures.info/

You can also read them for free on there.

To purchase the new leather ones, or paperback ones also, and to read about all the options and the printing process, go here: https://scriptures.shop/

Nubuck-Family-1 Scriptures

We have been waiting for these for a long time.  As I said in my last post, I am so grateful for the incredible amount of research and work that have gone into compiling and printing these!

Lamb-Family-1 Scriptures

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The Scriptures

The first copy of the Book of Mormon I ever had was one of the bright blue paperback copies with the gold Moroni statue on the cover.  If you are too young to have ever seen one of those, you should Google it.  They were so cool.  I was sad when they didn’t have those any more.  I got it before I joined The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, which was in 1973.

I loved that book.  I think after decades, and after its cover was gone, it finally ended up being thrown away, but I loved it.  It was greatly marked up.  I think it is the one I used to graph out chiasmi (had to look up the plural form of that word!) in college in different colored pencils.

Back in the days when I was baptized into the Church, we used any King James Version copy of the Bible that we wanted.  I had a different version of the Bible from my childhood as a Baptist, and I believe I used that for a bit, but at some point I got a KJV.

At some point I was taught that Joseph Smith worked on a “translation” or “inspired version” of the Bible.  This was marvelous to me!  Since we believe the Bible as far as it is translated correctly, to have a more correct version would be such a blessing.

I had no access to the corrections Joseph had made, though, until 1979 when the LDS King James Version was printed.  I was a young married person at that time, and I remember Vaughn and I were so excited about this!  In this Bible, the verses that Joseph had changed, or added to in some way, were marked with a footnote, and if the change was short, you could find it at the bottom of that page in the notes.  Longer changes were in a separate section in the back.

In 1981 a new Triple Combination (Book of Mormon, Doctrine & Covenants, and Pearl of Great Price in one volume) was also published by the Church.  Around then I got a “Quad” which was all four books of scripture bound into one.  In that Quad, I went through and highlighted in red pencil the notes which were Joseph’s inspired changes of the Bible at the bottom of each page where they were found, so that I would not miss one while reading.  I loved the inspired version.  I did find that Joseph’s changes weren’t always used or referred to at Church, though, even in lessons, and that surprised me.

At some point I learned that not all of Joseph’s changes were in the new LDS KJV.  This really surprised me.  I did not understand why you would not want to have every single thing Joseph ever changed actually in the Bible.  I think I asked about why it wasn’t in there, and I do remember that from whatever I was told, my understanding at that point was that the RLDS Church (now the Community of Christ) had the rest of it, and so the Mormon Church did not have the rights to it all, and so couldn’t print it. Turns out that wasn’t quite true, and also that the RLDS version also had changes made to it after Joseph died and had other mistakes in it, as did all the scriptures at that time.

A few years ago I began to realize the problems with the Doctrine & Covenants.  Such things as changes being made to Joseph’s revelations by others after the fact, and other problems.  And I learned about the Book of Mormon problems with punctuation (there was none in the original manuscript – it was all added at first by the type setter), transcription and typesetting errors, etc.  I obtained a copy of Royal Skousen’s The Book of Mormon, The Earliest Text.  It was quite amazing to read, especially because it was more in the format it was before the division into chapters and verses.  The flow and understanding of it seemed so different.

After that I started to really wish I had the ability and know-how to research and figure out all the erroneous changes, and to get back to what Joseph Smith originally received as far as the Book of Mormon is concerned, and back to the original revelations he received without the changes others had made (which sometimes greatly changed, or even reversed the original meaning).  Shortly after wishing that, I heard a rumor that someone else was actually doing that, and I was very excited about it.

It turned out that there were actually two groups of people, who both felt that they needed to do that very thing – go through all the scriptures, and all the sources, and all the research, and put together something that was as correct and as close to what Joseph Smith had done as possible.  After both working on the project for quite a while, those two groups found out about each other, and they got together, and shared everything they had done so far, and began to work together on the project.

The whole project turned out to be more work, more amazing, and more important than anyone realized at the beginning.  I have some friends amongst the group, and I was talking with one of them a few days ago.  I asked him if he had any idea how much work, and how important a project this would be when he first began.  He said he had no idea.

The project has taken a few years and the efforts of many people.  As it went on, the participants, and those cheering them on from the sidelines, began to slowly realize how vital this work was to what the Lord is doing right now.

It is finally done, although there will always be new revelations to add.  The Lord loves everyone and he speaks today and to all nations.  So much more is also expected in the future.  But it was vital to recover and remember, as much as possible, what the Lord had already given during this restoration, which was not finished during Joseph Smith’s lifetime, but which now has a chance to be finished.  This was one of the absolutely vital elements, which I don’t think most of us realized at the start.

What has been done in this project is available to read for free at http://scriptures.info/.  There will be hard copies of the finished project available before too long.

I am so incredibly grateful to the people who have worked on this, and to the Lord for inspiring and guiding them throughout.


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Today is a Day

Today is a day I feel very sick.

I feel sick every single day. I have felt sick every single day for many years.

But some days, like today, I have moments when I feel like it might be the last day. Obviously whenever I have felt that it hasn’t been true, so far, but someday it will be.

Any of you who know me much at all know I have Lyme Disease. I had it for 6 years before anyone knew what was wrong, and so it got a hold in my brain and in at least some organs, and my general trend has been slowly downward, as far as health goes. It is likely Lyme is what will kill me.

It’s not that there’s no hope for remission. There is. I hope I get there. But I’m not really feeling it today.

But this post is not about Lyme.

This post is about death. But it is not meant to be sad, nor to make anyone sad.

There are moments when I want to die. When I am so sick that I know death would be a great relief. But I still have a strong underlying will to live. I’m not ready to leave you all yet!  But, I have also felt for years that if that will goes away, I will die. I know it is God keeping me alive. He has told me that many times. But I also think if that will inside me dies, that he will honor that. God never forces me, he only persuades me.

Every time I write a blog post, I think about what I want people I love to know now and when I am gone. But before I die, what do I want people to know the very most? I am going to try now to say some of those things. Both my practical wishes and more spiritual and emotional thoughts.

And a lot of it is stuff I want everyone who knows me to know, so I put it here on my blog instead of just telling a few family privately.

I am grateful. For everything. For every moment of my life, and for everything that I have experienced. I can say that in this moment. In the midst of my desperate moments, I can’t always say that. But in this calm moment, and looking back at every hard thing, I can say it and mean it with my whole soul.

In one of my very most desperate moments, when all I could do was try to keep breathing and pray without even words, the Lord took my mind to a place where I could see that everything was as it should be, and that we are all one in some profound way, and that Love has us in its arms.

I try to remember that. It’s not always easy.

I read this article, and I have some things to say pertaining to what it talks about.

I have watched my child die, and I have watched my Mother die. I tried to be there when my Father died, but I was too late. It was a privilege to be with my son and my Mom. I hope that it helped them to feel my great love for them as they moved on. I hope that someone who loves me dearly will be with me when I die. I believe someone will, even if there happens to not be someone mortal there at the time.

As for medical wishes, I know that advance directives might not do very well at actually describing what should be done in the end of life. My Mom’s was not written the way it needed to be to honor her wishes. Thankfully she was awake and lucid that last day and could tell them what not to do.

So, while I want to live now, there are some states I would not want to live in. I do not want to live in continuous terror. I do not want to live in continuous excruciating pain. I do not want to live if my mind is gone. If my mind is there, but everything else is gone, particularly the ability to communicate, let me go to sleep and move on.

If you happen to be with me when I am dying, talk to me. Even if you think I can’t hear you, talk to me. Tell me how you feel. Tell me about yourself. If you can’t think of anything to say, then read to me. Or play me talks you know I would like. Rub my back or my feet, if it seems to feel good to me, and if it doesn’t gross you out too much 🙂 . I want to die at home with my comfort managed, if at all possible.

When I die, donate my organs and tissues to those who study Lyme Disease, if possible. Don’t spend any more money than absolutely necessary on me after death! I am fine with being buried just in my flannel pajamas and no coffin or anything. Or cremate me and pour my ashes in some pretty place. I want my family to do whatever they want that is easiest for them. If there is a memorial service or something like that (only if you want to have one), then sing for me, if you feel like it, and I will be listening.

All I ask is that before you do any of those things, make sure I am really dead. I was too affected by reading Poe’s “Premature Burial” in my youth 🙂 .  (I also realize some of this stuff needs to go in a will.)

If you think you have ever hurt me, offended me, upset me, etc., Let It Go! I have prayed many nights that no one would ever be condemned for anything they have done to me, that they would be blessed with the greatest possible blessings, and with whatever was best for them. I have been abused, molested, raped, robbed, shunned, berated, humiliated, treated terribly, and horribly misunderstood. So have a lot of people. If you have done any of those things to me, you either actually haven’t, or I forgive you. I only think back about those things in terms of what I have learned, or can learn, if I think of them at all. I have learned a lot from it all. My hard times have been a blessing.

If you have ever loved or helped me in any way, I am so thankful to you! More than I can say! I have prayed many nights for you to have the greatest possible blessings, and whatever is best for you. I have been cherished, healed, gently cared for, blessed, befriended, helped in huge financial and so many other ways, and dearly loved. I wish those things for everyone. I have learned so much from everyone who has been so good to me. My good times have been a blessing.

If I have ever harmed you in any way, please forgive me. I am foolish and human. It would be too long a list if I wrote all my faults. If you know me, you know at least some of them. For your own peace, forgive me. And also know that my desire my whole life has been to never hurt anyone. I have, of course, failed miserably. But that has been my desire.

I remember that my Step-Father told my Mother that if they had an argument, and if he died before they could make up, to not feel badly or guilty about that. To me, that was beautiful. I say the same. Whatever our circumstances at the time I die, know that I have only love for any of you who know me, and anything less is not the truth, it is just a hindrance of mortality, and I don’t plan on taking anything but love for everyone with me. So have no regrets and no guilt because of me.

I have the best family and friends ever. Every one of you, living and dead. You are all the best. You are all perfect for me. I would not change any of you. I would wish for you all to be happier, and healthier, and more peaceful, and to know more truth to delight your souls, but I also know God has you. They have you.

The path of my life has been perfect for me, and I trust that it will continue to be. Even if I whine about it.

Whenever I die, I believe it will be the right time. I know some people will be very sad. That is okay. It is always worth the pain to love. I hope you will have comfort in knowing I loved you dearly and you made my life wonderful. But don’t get sad yet. I’m still here!

I do intend to live many more years. I am not that old (although it may seem I am to my younger family and friends 🙂 ), and the disease I have is sometimes possible to get under control. I am doing lots of things right now to get well, and some of that might actually be making me feel temporarily worse, which prompted this post. So have lots of hope for me. And I look forward to writing lots more on this blog!

It makes me glad to have written this.  Thank you for reading it.

And when we do die, we’ll just be coming home again to each other.

“But when I stop
And see you here
I remember who all this was for
And from now on
These eyes will not be blinded by the lights
From now on
What’s waited till tomorrow starts tonight
It starts tonight
And let this promise in me start
Like an anthem in my heart
From now on
From now on
From now on
And we will come back home
And we will come back home
Home, again!
And we will come back home
And we will come back home
Home, again!
And we will come back home
And we will come back home
Home, again!”

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Grateful Still

I am just sitting here thinking how grateful I am for the last few years and what the Lord has been doing with me to try to teach me.  And I am grateful God is patient and uses persuasion and not control or force.

The Lord is always gentle with me.

I have talked about this before, but I can look back over my life and see God leading me the whole time.  But He doesn’t push or force, and so I see that I have to show I really do want what I get, and I have to actually be willing to sacrifice what it takes to get it and what comes as a result.

I am thinking about the catalysts for what I have learned and experienced the past decade or so.  I think there are a few things that allowed the Lord to teach me so much more stuff, and to give me more experiences to learn from.

First, I had this love for Jesus and a desire to be like He was from a very early age, which I have talked about before on this blog.  I think that was a gift, and probably something brought with me from before this life.

Second, I studied certain things for decades.  And I was restless with the status quo.  Because of what I learned, I knew that experiencing the same things for decades, and really not learning all that much more, was not the way it was supposed to be.  Yes, I had great experiences with people and with God, but when I look back, I can see there was not a whole lot more insight or knowledge of the things of God that I gained, no matter how much I read or studied through those years.

Third, miraculously I was led to the further information I had been searching actively for, for all those decades.  I attribute that totally to God, but I also know that if I hadn’t been searching, He wouldn’t have forced the information on me.  And if at any point I had (or if I do now) rejected what I was being given, He would have stopped giving me what I didn’t want.

Fourth, I finally (after a long time of being foolish) took a step away from the control of men and followed what the spirit of the Lord was telling me, and then miracles happened that opened the way for me to learn so many things.

Fifth, that led to more stepping away than I ever imagined I might have to do.  I had to sacrifice what I had often before described as “my whole life.”  What I learned through doing that was that I had conflated an institution and the control of men with what was ACTUALLY my whole life.

Sixth, I learned that life could be even harder than I imagined, but that in the midst of that, I could still be thankful every minute for the greater knowledge and understanding I was given.  It is worth it.

I am thankful every day for this new path.  Many things are sad and hard.  Harder than I ever imagined things would be, as I said.  But never, not for a moment, have I felt it is not worth it.  Truth is delicious, as Joseph Smith said.  And the more I learn and understand, the more I realize I don’t know and don’t understand.  I have had to lay what I thought I knew, and what I thought I understood, on the altar, so the Lord could really teach me.  It is an incredible journey which both breaks you and heals you. And it doesn’t end, if you don’t want it to.

Another word about truth.  It may not always feel good to hear it in the first moment.  It may sometimes be VERY uncomfortable to hear the truth.  We may think truth is false at first when it goes against something we believe, when it makes us feel uncomfortable and bumps up against our cognitive dissonance.

Truth, or things God asks of us, do NOT always “feel” good or give us “warm fuzzies.”  There are examples of that over and over in the scriptures.  I used the example of Samuel the Lamanite in another post.  The people shooting arrows at him certainly took the truth to be hard because what he was saying went against what they believed.

But truth is worth whatever we have to sacrifice.  We may have to join Samuel on the wall and have arrows shot at us also.  In the 6th Lecture on Faith, paragraph 9, it says “the knowledge that men have that they are accepted in the sight of God is obtained by offering sacrifice. And in the last days before the Lord comes, he is to gather together his saints who have made a covenant with him by sacrifice. Psalms 50:3 – 5 [Ps. 50:1]: Our God shall come and shall not keep silence: a fire shall devour before him and it shall be very tempestuous round about him. He shall call to the heavens from above and to the earth, that he may judge his people. Gather my saints together unto me, those that have made a covenant unto me by sacrifice.” (reference here)  The words I put in bold in that quote show that we can’t just make a covenant “to” sacrifice, we make a covenant “by” sacrifice.

There is always sacrifice.  In the next paragraph from Lectures on Faith: “Those, then, who make the sacrifice will have the testimony that their course is pleasing in the sight of God, and those who have this testimony will have faith to lay hold on Eternal life and will be enabled, through faith, to endure unto the end and receive the crown that is laid up for them that love the appearing of our Lord Jesus Christ. But those who do not make the sacrifice cannot enjoy this faith because men are dependent upon this sacrifice in order to obtain this faith, therefore they cannot lay hold upon Eternal life because the revelations of God do not guarantee unto them the authority so to do, and without this guarantee faith could not exist.” (reference here)

I thought I was sacrificing before.  There was sacrifice for me before, but it was not the same.  It is clear there are levels upon levels of sacrifice.  We have only to look at the atonement to know that.

Anyway, it has been beautiful to me, this last decade especially, no matter the sacrifice.  And I am forever grateful.  I hope I can learn everything it is possible for me to in this life, and that I can do whatever the Lord wants me to do.  I only can with the Lord’s help.  That I do know.

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Beautiful Symbolism

Some of the most beautiful and misunderstood symbolism illuminated:

“this” and “that” Part 3

In a temple ceremony, a veil is used as a symbol to separate the initiate from the Lord. This is a symbol of the division between heaven and earth, between time and eternity, or between the sacred and the commonplace. Beyond the veil are the angels, gods and spirits (that). Here there are mortals.

Passing through that veil (that) happens in one of two ways. One way is to gain knowledge of God’s mysteries and living true and faithful to them. This is symbolized in the temple ceremony, but that actually happened in the case of the brother of Jared. “And because of the knowledge of this man, he could not be kept from beholding within the veil. And he saw the finger of Jesus, which when he saw, he fell with fear, for he knew that it was the finger of the Lord. And he had faith no longer, for he knew, nothing doubting. Wherefore, having this perfect knowledge of God, he could not be kept from within the veil. Therefore, he saw Jesus, and he did minister unto him.” (NC Ether 1:14) Temple rites explain that anyone who arrives at the veil boundary who has been true and faithful in all things is entitled to converse with the Lord through the veil. Once the Lord is satisfied they possess the required attributes, then they can enter into His presence.

The second way of passing through that veil is explained by Alma, “[B]ehold, it has been made known unto me by an angel that the spirits of all men, as soon as they are departed from this mortal body, yea, the spirits of all men, whether they be good or evil, are taken home to that God who gave them life.” (NC Alma 19:6)

The ceremony employs two veils to symbolize the separation between mortality and eternity, the sacred and the profane. The boundary veil is used during the ceremony to test the initiate before permitting the individual to enter into the presence of the Lord. The second veil is used to symbolize the role of the woman.

Except for what happens in the womb of the woman, everything in mortality is subject to entropy. Women have the ordained power to produce new life. Everything else decays and dies. Her power defies the universal effects of entropy.

The ceremonial boundary veil that acts as the divider between worlds represents when the initiate is tested by heaven. This takes place before they are permitted to pass from earth to heaven, from time to eternity and from the commonplace to the sacred. In direct contrast, the veil of the woman represents the transition of pre-earth eternal spirits into mortality, when the sacred becomes embodied. She, along with God, veils in flesh the spirits from beyond the veil. “You have clothed me with skin and flesh, and have framed me with bones and sinews.” (OC Job 4:10) Therefore, the woman’s veil represents the inverse of the other veil. The boundary veil symbolizes losing the flesh to leave mortality, and her veil endows the immortal spirit with mortal flesh.

Like her heavenly counterpart, the woman represents creation. This process, like that which is beyond the boundary veil, is sacred. Both veils symbolize the sacred.

Woman is veiled to show that in a fallen world, trapped by decay and death, creation continues through her. Life springs anew and what is sacred and pure is born into mortal life. It would not be proper to remove the ceremonial veiling from the woman unless the intention was to abort the symbol of new life and creation. It destroys the symbol of the sacred power given to woman. The destroyer, of course, seeks to end life and impose misrule and death.

Of all the symbols in the temple rites, some of the most important and least understood involve the woman. The role of man is knowledge and the role of woman is wisdom. In the paper Our Divine Parents, pages 35 through 38, there is a discussion about Moses’ parable of the creation of man and woman. The woman had a direct relation to the Heavenly Mother, from whom she obtained the power to produce new life. That power resides with the Eternal Mother, and had to be endowed by Her for the mortal woman to inherit that eternal power. The creation of woman was designed to preserve, despite the fall of man, the Divine Mother’s power allowing life to continue despite the relentless pull of entropy toward dissolution, decay and the grave. This originally elevated the woman.

The original of the portion of this post in blue print can be found here.

“Our Divine Parents” is a wonderful paper to read for much more amazing information on this subject.

You can also listen to the audio of the “Our Divine Parents” talk here.

Here is the YouTube video of the talk.

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